There's this girl I have known for about a year now. I really like her as a friend, but I think I like her more. Well I know if we went out I would grow to love her she is amazing and at the moment she comes over we hug and cuddle but nothing more,. We have kissed at a party awhile ago but nothing ever became of it, I'm not sure whether to tell her how I feel and risk it then being awkward and then us not being such close friends. Or whether to just stay friends and put my feels for her aside because I couldn't stand to lose her as a friend if we did go out and broke up. Because then it would be weird between us. And I really don't want that.. What can I do? btw I'm only 17. Not going into anything like marriage or that srs.
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I feel like I just answered this question, it's the same basic principle but there are some slight variations.
Okay, let me begin...
You are friends right now.
You kissed. A while ago.
Neither of you acknowledged it.
She was just as capable as you were of discussing what was going on between you two. So she could either be thinking the exact same thing as you. She could have feelings for you too and not want to jeopardize your amazing friendship for a short-term relationship (because lets face it, when you're in high school you'll be a completely different person even 5 years down the road, so the chances of you two breaking up is very big).
Or, she could have realized that after you two kissed, she really felt nothing for you as anything more than a friend.
Either way, so you know for sure, I would talk to her about it and see where you stand. Even if you don't get her to be your girlfriend, you'll still have her as a friend. And sometimes friends are all you ever have and need.0