Is this age gap too big?

I am a 19 year old and the guy I like is 24. This year I'll be 20 and he 25.

Basically a 5 year difference.

Do you think its wrong to be together? Or do you think it can work for some people? Please share your opinions and experiences if any. Thanks!


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Most Helpful Girl

  • My boyfriend is seven years older than me (I'm 20 and he 27). Is it wrong? No. Does it work? Well yes, we're together for 3 years. Don't worry that much, if he makes you happy and is a nice guy, everything is fine...

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What Guys Said 18

  • It's not a tiny gap but you're both consenting adults.
    When I was 24 I wouldn't have dated a 19 yo but I've always been very picky (a tad too picky)

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  • I say no, its ok, bigger issue is maturity. you may be more mature than he is.

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  • No not at all Its nothing

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  • No, I think it's a normal gap.

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  • Nope not bad at all

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  • nope

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  • no, nothing wrong with it

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  • My wife and i are 9 years apart. I am nearly 33 and she is 22. I dont think age matters much as compatibility. As long as you are of legal age and so is he i say more power to you.

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    • Thats so cute! Thanks :D

  • the age gap is ok i think.

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  • No.. its a good gap

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  • Not a bad age difference at all.

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  • I think it will work just fine.

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  • i think that age gap is too big in my opinion.

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  • That's a normal age difference. I've had triple that age difference and things were fine just depends on the people.

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  • this question makes no sense. what are you asking if it would work? the "relationship"? in 6 months- two years max it will be over. didn't you know that? thats no big news. its all a silly game of temporary lust and excitement. except if you are thinking of marriage and longterm stuff... .

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  • I think 5 years is ok.

    what about 10, as this has been on mind mind recently

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  • No that's silly, unless you don't feel mature enough to be in a relationship with him, your probably on his level anyway at that age with him by now

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  • No that's totally fine. I've seen a lot bigger gaps than that. Just enjoy each other's company

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What Girls Said 3

  • No, that's a perfectly fine age gap. To me personally, a 7 year age gap is what I consider the most. Anything more than that seems just weird. But your age gap is good.

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  • Nope.

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  • Whatever some people date 20 years apart

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