I've only had 1 guy actually show any interest in me at all, and even then it didn't last long. I'm never able to get a guys attention or even get close to talking to him and texting him. I don't understand. I don't consider myself ugly, I don't consider myself pretty either. I feel I'm a somewhat decent human being, so why do guys never want to talk to me? The only reason I can really think of is because I'm not popular and I'm kinda weird. I don't know. I know I shouldn't worry about guys at my age but it seems like everyone around me is in a relationship and I find it so cute and I want it. No guy ever gives me a chance. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
I know you don't want to hear it but it's the age not only that but people your age girls at your age are just starting to get interested in boys and wanting them to notice you.
While boys aren't really all that interested in girls quite yet, couple that with being more interested in friends, video games, goofing off as well as being more shy at that age.
Also both boys and girls at that age are chemically, emotionally and hormone (ly) unbalanced and unstable. You don't know what you want exactly, were you want to go, your not mature and I don't mean that in a bad way just that people that age aren't mature enough to really understand. How attraction and romance works, nor are you sure how to go about it for the most part.
My advice is don't sweat it and don't try to grow up and get into a relationship at your age, just enjoy childhood for now, be a kid because once your childhood is gone darlin it's gone. You will have plenty of time to be with guys, and most guys are pretty much morons until college or after anyway.
Plus once you actually reach real high school in a couple of years your mind will have matured more and your body matured more into a woman's figure. And guys will be far more interested in girls then they will be in anything else.
So at this stage and age don't sweat it alright? trust me all of that stuff will come in time.
Most Helpful Girl
You're 14, chill haha
Seriously, you still have plenty of time!!!2