Guys, would you turn down a date with a girl with an amazing personality that attracts you if she was physically unappealing?
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I usually am attracted to people I have a connection with. So If I don't find her physically appealing at all then I most likely don't have any chemistry with her. by the way I've liked girls who were 5'2 and over 225 lbs. So I'd say I focus more on personality.
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There are many levels of attraction, and not all of those aspects are necessarily physical, however I would like to find at least a few things physically appealing. However I will give most things a chance to see where they go before I make any final judgements.
a person with an amazing personality is instantly physically appealing
Yes. If I don't find her attractive, I won't be going on a date with her.
I wouldn't say no to friendship though.
If its just a tad beyond realistic for her natural bodies build yea I would refuse but that means like half an inch of inflamed tissue.
If she had nothing physically appealing about her, then definitely I would turn her down, but that would almost certainly be a reflection of her personality, for example her diet and exercise choices.
I'd date her... could be an awesome person
Well, without that physical spark I would have--a really awesome female friend. Which is a fine person to have in one's life, but it just isn't a lover.
My wife wouldn't like it but I'd be tempted.
I have done this yes, I'm not very picky when it comes to looks but it is mandatory that I am attracted to her.
Yes, gotta have both. And you just cannot replace physical attraction, it's impossible to replace.
Physical attraction is important to. She doesn't have to be a model, but I have to find her attractive as well as like her personality.
I think it depends on the degree. I think I'd need to see some potential.
Knowing myself, I probably wouldn't but if I knew that there's no way I'd ever be attracted to her then yes I would.
No i tried that already, she wasn't ugly but she wasn't really all that cute AND her personality bored me to death because i had to do EVERYTHING so no fuck that
Why would anyone want to date someone they're not attracted to?
Yes, I need to be physically attracted to the gal.
We could hang out as friends but if i don't feel physical attraction i can't force myself to feel more than that.
Yes, it is a huge turn off.
yes i would. i look for the whole package
No, I'd at least have a first date to see what she's about. Personality is very important.
if she is that amazing i doubt she is that unappealing
Guys standards are generally not quite as strict as girls think, but they are real.
If she was not unappealing but not ugly and had some pretty aspects to her looks yes. I am less shallow than I used to be thankfully.
You need some physical attraction in a sexual relationship and guys need more than girls...
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