A man is suppose to make his woman happy. She should feel protected , provided for , satisfied emotionally and sexually. If the woman cheats in the relationship , it means the man has failed to achieve what is expected of him. Which means as a man he has failed himself and is a disgrace to mankind. Agree or disagree?
I disagree, if a woman cheats, that is her choice. It's her bag to deal with afterwards, not the man's.
I've been cheated on and I hate when I tell potential dates about it (because they always ask what happened to my last relationship). I want to be honest, but I hate it because there is so much judgement against me as a person, when I in fact had no control over the situation.
People can say it was my fault because I didn't do something for him. But my ex never communicated his dissatisfaction. Actually he always told me how much he enjoyed sex and our relationship. So I had literally no idea!
I had asked several times if everything was fine, and he said it was. He never once told me anything was up. So I assumed things were great. But he decided to cheat on me the whole time. It made me feel so bad.
But I hate when people think the person who was cheated on needs to take ownership. If a person is unhappy in a relationship, it is up to them to say something. Say something and both can work on it. If one party refuses to work on it, then maybe it's time to break up and let both parties find their own happiness.
If a woman loves her SO, then she'd want to make him feel happy too. There's two people in the relationship, so both should strive to make one another happy. Everyone is responsibe for their own actions and behaviour , so if she cheats it means she is weak and and is only looking out for herself rather than her SO as well.
If he isn't there for her and she's unhappy then she should either communicate with him to try to resolve the problems or leave him. Cheating shouldn't be an option. It's too high a price to pay for the both of them
It's never your fault that your partner cheats, cheating is because they are selfish not because you did anything wrong. If you were faithful to her loved her and respected her then she took you for granted.
A man is supposed to make his woman happy, but i also believe it goes both ways. If the woman does not communicate to the man her concerns, and goes off and cheats on him, she's at fault for not being upfront about it and possibly (or not) working it out. Both have to meet in the middle.