I don't expect to be chased but I expect a guy to make an effort and display signs of interest. I think both men and women should put an equal amount of effort in to pursue one another. I'd stop making an effort and lose interest if he didn't make an obvious effort with me.
For me personally, it started out being men/women. Then it seemed like dudes got more timid. I find that the only dudes (asides from my current lover) who pursue now are looking for casual hookups. I feel the expectation is still more so on men to chase, but women are having to do much more of it than they have been used to.
I think men do the most chasing in the beginning stage... while the girl either have no interest, plays hard to get or be flattered by all the attention he gives her. If he starts loosing interest and she's falling for him then she does the most chasing. (thankfully this is not always the case)
I don't expect to be chased but you gotta show me that you're a great guy. Flirting & paying for dates isn't enough.
I don't go for the person who who is chasing me more. I go for the person I have a better connection with. Also, I go for the person who treats me better & have admirable things going on for himself.
I think it should be mutual. Why should just one person be making all the effort? I say if you like someone, tell them and show them. If you like them back say so! No need for all the "chasing" and the wondering.
Men i think.. cus i never did any chasing.. mainly cus i am very very shy..
I guess men more so, but that's not saying some women don't chase. I don't like to chase or be chased, but obviously something has to be done. If I like the guy, then I'll ask him out. No bs mind games, just "Hi, I like you. Want to hang out some time?" A guy can do the same to me, or at least they have in the past and it works for me.
I don't like being chased but I do expect a woman to make an effort and to show interest. I always set an intention to pursue a woman so she knows where she stands and doesn't have to guess if I like her or not. The effort should be about equal, most women don't feel safe unless a guy makes an effort toward a relationship, he has to invest in her and she should in him to a common goal of mutual commitment. I usually make a concerted effort however some women do not and expect to be taken care of without making any effort. Those women often find themselves alone, attracting undesirables and worse yet, settle for a guy they don't find attractive just to say they are in a relationship.
Men, obviously. I'm very surprised that anyone would say otherwise. Traditional protocol is the woman chills out, looks pretty to attract guys: then the guys chase. That is vastly the norm. I don't expect to be chased. Like, ever. It's happened before, but very mildly.
Men have to do the chase it seems, but women tend to use Jedi mind tricks and all sorts of things to try to persuade a guy to like them. It's rather stupid that guys have to do that actual initiation usually