Why do Women my age get so butthurt when they find out I dont date women older than 26?
What Girls Said 25
It is because you are implying that they are not good enough and that is not taken lightly.
Of course it is your preference, but you are excluding women who could potentially be a good partner for you and what you need/want - but if they are over 26, you won't look at them. (Maybe that is not the case, but that is how it comes across... So it makes you look shallow and selfish and no one likes those qualities in a person). So maybe that is why they brush you off..
Women also have this with men but opposite, where they are unlikely to date younger men - since they are seen as immature... however that is not always the case and if you do find someone younger who is a great fit with you, age should not be a cause to dismiss them as a person. Having that said, it also goes the same way for you.
But everybody is different and we all have a right to have our 'perimeters'... So I guess that is yours... But maybe now you understand why women see this negatively, just as many men view negatively that many women won't date men younger or same age as them...
Everyone has a preference but we should all take into account that as we age/get older, we all become attractive in different ways and our needs change. What is it that you are looking for? Can this woman provide that for you? It shouldn't matter if she is 26 or 31.
yeah you do and you will. you my not want to but its what you'll end up with. majority of relationships dont have a large age gap, and if you were successfully pulling decades younger dates, you wouldn't be bragging about your 'preference' on gag.
by the way woken who start out ten years younger still get ten years older. anyone who needs to be with young people can't have an actual relationship. people age. requiring young, its nothing boast about. everyone likes youth --but it doesn't last.4
I've know guys like you. As they get older and are still single, they up that minimum. Unfortunate thing is, if he didn't set such a hard rule for himself, he'd have found a soul mate... Probably younger too. but with critical thinking like that, girls wonder what else is he so critical of... and decide to pass.5
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Funny thing is I find a lot of women, including myself looking and feeling way better than I did in my 20s. I pull in guys anywhere from 18-40 years old, I have absolutely no issues with the dating scene at age 36. some of us are blessed with good genes and some aren't. You're allowed to be attracted to who you want but just remember , you're getting older too and those girls in their 20s won't want anything to do with you one day as you're pushing old age. It's a fact of life with both sexes.2
Mmmm... because you're over 30?
I generally don't date guys my age, usually preffering guys who are older because they're more mature, but not as a rule. It makes sense as a general thing but I do feel like you're closing yourself off from having more diverse and enjoyable life experiences by ruling out your own age group.2
A women at 26 is the same as a 27-31 year old. I actually have found that women get prettier as they get older because they know what looks good on them. It's not about them being "butthurt", it's the mere fact that you make it such a point and you probably come off very condescending. It's not a big deal, there are older men 45+ who prefer a sexy 35 year old woman, so it's not to say that these women are hopeless simply because you don't date them. It's your preference, but try not to be mean sprited and condescending about it. Honestly, when the right one comes around, age is irrelevant. Don't miss out on a good person just because of something stupid like age.3
Eh it wouldn't bother me. We all have preferences. Just as I wouldn't date a guy who's younger than me.1
Lol As if younger men aren't hotter, and last longer in bed due to stamina. What old men don't get is that, a lot of times younger women seek older men for financial gain. Something they feel men their age can't provide but make no mistake they are still very much attracted to men their age. Whereas a lot of younger men are genuinely into older women because of experience, maturity, etc. That has to sting.2
They probably don't care as much as you think.3
If you were chatting up a girl would you suddenly become disinterested if she told you she is 27.0
I guess they take it personally and think you are saying that older women are unattractive.0
Because you suck at trolling0
Define butt hurt? I'm on my way to 27 and really couldn't care less whom you date. However, it does say something about you, and it feeds into a sexist narrative of "younger women are better, more attractive, more everything, women have an expiration date."
But you're not the first nor the last, not special. I can judge you without being butthurt though. I don't even know you, and may not even be interested in the type of man you are, but I can still be opposed to the line of thought that has lead men to that decision for centuries. So eh, whatever. Do you, as they say.5
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Maybe because you're their age and trying to find someone really young.1
What Guys Said 9
you know the answer, so why ask? Of coarse, i know the answer too. You're looking to put people down today... which is fine, i don't particularly care for women's insecurities. But certainly you can find something better to do on a Monday morning no?9
The way I look at it is that it is your choice to date whatever age you want and they can choose to date whatever age they want - I wouldn't lose sleep over someone's choices in life unless I really liked them and even then it would be a you win some, you lose some thought.1
Women have been lied to, as have men, that men and women have the same desires and preferences. Because, for various reasons, women generally prefer men their own age and older, many women assume that men generally prefer women their own age or older. These women then realize too late that this is not true. In the West, there is an ever-increasing number of embittered, single women in their late twenties and above.1
'cuz they're pissed at themselves for not figuring out why they date a guy 10is years younger than them. Initially it makes them feel immature but the next thing they know is that they're hooked
Women our age have a hard time competing with early 20-somethings in the physical department. Not a dig on 30-somethings, just a reality (in general) the same way 40-somethings can't compete with the 30s (again, in general) and so on up. They can only control that to a certain extent, and people get angry when something they can't control is held "against" them.
It's your preference though, not anyone else's. If that's how you roll, roll on.1
Dude, I'm right there with you. I only fuck young girls and it isn't likely to change as I get older. 18-24 is the sweet spot. Its not our fault either. The younger girls tend to be tighter, look younger, everything bounces perfectly, perkier, prettier, and more carefree. Even when they are very curvy, which I love, everything is so firm and perky. They also look up to you and want to please you, in my experience. And men go crazy over tight young pussy, thats just nature. Nothing we could do to change that, except settle for lower quality, older women.
I have nothing against them, and I have good friends who are older. But I'm not nearly as attracted to them as the tight little girls I date. I also get turned on by age difference, and that will probably get worse as I get older. May as well accept it now. You make a valid point for having kids too. Their hottest years are also prime age for kids. So the young ones are the best for hooking up, dating, showing off to your friends, and marriage/having kids. And a lot of them like older guys. The ugly truth. We didn't make the rules but we can enjoy them.0
Because they don't like to feel undesirable and don't like aging. They get their pick when they are younger and can't stand when it switches into a guys favor when they get older. They are used to being the one who does the picking their whole life and then it switches and makes them mad.0
So you're not gonna date ANYONE over 26? I can't even begin to comprehend what a bull of a form of an argument that is.4
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