This happened a few months back. I was hopelessly crushing on this one guy and he seemed to like me. He often asked his friends about whether they found me pretty or not. He was a good friend. He was overall very nice to me too. I always showed how much I cared for him through small gestures like... Getting him a bottle of coke because he was thirsty and stuff. So... Yea I asked him out 3 times. He kept beating around the bushes. Never answered. In the end I told him he hurt me. And then he asked me out but never confirmed whether he was actually taking me out or not. I was always very straight forward with my feelings for him and I hated playing around so.. I asked him directly one day whether he would like to go out with me or not. And he said no. He had a good reason. He was leaving the country and all and he didn't think long distance would work. He told his friends he liked me. But I dont know why he never told me that himself... Anyhoo. Do you guys feel intimidated when girls get all frank and straight with you about such matters?
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I like frank and up front, sometimes indirect is fun too.
So no I'm not intimidated. but I'm not 17. when I was 17 I may have been, but I would have accepted. He seems confused or maybe he is just over thinking it because he's leaving.2