We met online first so we truly ended up falling in love with the personality. Weight is an issue I've had since I was a child. I have already lost 30 kg's but I still have some to lose. My boyfriend has never really hid that he thinks I am chubby but he has been very accepting saying that he loves me and will help me work on it. Still it's hurtful when he goes "I'm not saying you have a perfect body. Because you don't. But I'm trying my best to overlook it" which was a knife to my heart because I know my body is not perfect I know that but I have worked hard to get where I am now and I am just not sure how to cope with the feeling my boyfriend judges me.
Most Helpful Guy
1. All people judge. Being in a relationship with that person is definitely not a free pass to not be judged by them. Who ever you date is going to judge you. They may not vocalize it but it's going to happen. So don't focus on whether or not people should or should not be judging you focus on how to live happily despite the judgement of others.
2. He's a dick for wording things that way. He may be speaking his honest mind but he has poor empathy skills and should definitely work on his tact.0
Most Helpful Girl
Being supportive is one thing. He is not. He's hiding under the guise of being supportive. He's rubbing it in your face that he's basically settling. And you don't need anyone like that.4