We met on dating site and went on 3 dates. Nothing physical happened so I asked him to be honest with me. And this is what he said:
"Look the truth is that the day after we met my ex reappeared and fucked with my brain again. I think you’re really cute and probably the coolest person I met in (insert country). But I don’t want to be the douche that plays safe and if things end up happening leaves. Specially after you told me it was hard for you the last time.
That said, I’d like to keep hanging out if that’s ok :)."
I said I'm not okay with that because I wasn't looking for a friend and that he knows where to find me if he changes his mind. Did I gave up too soon?
Most Helpful Guy
Why are you coming to seek justifications here? This is just too much drama for me. *Sigh* This is saddening. So many women complain their men are not their friends or close enough, but you do not want that. It is okay for you not to want a friend, but he probably does want someone who is special to him. If he cares and likes you, he will take you back. As for whether such a relationship would work, who knows? What am I saying? You would not let him to take back an ex and now you want to be taken back as an ex? Maybe you'll be nicer now knowing why he does what he does?0
Most Helpful Girl
Wow he was a super nice and honest guy. Your response was pretty immature and you should've been more understanding.0