On Saturday night I met up with this guy I have been chatting to on an online dating site for awhile. We had such a fun time and then ending up going home and sleeping together. I actually really like him and would love to see him again, and I want him to know I wasn't just after a random hook-up.
there's a 2-3 minute window after he cums where he'll be floating in cloud nine and most vulnerable. hit him w/ the seriousness then.
i fucked on the first meeting the two longest relationships i've had. each about a year and a half. you got to speak to him in his language.. which is sex. do not ask for dinner, and claim you're not a random hook up... no girl sees it that way.
if you want a genuine boyfriend outta this, you gotta spend more time with him... and going out on a date after you just had sex on the first meeting isn't in his interests.
If it's been a couple of days and you haven't heard from him it's not ideal, but definitely not a huge problem. Re-initiate conversation, let him know you had a good time and that you want to see him again. It's been a couple of days, you're in the safe zone. You don't want to leave it much longer or it will look like it's just to fill an empty weekend night or something. You'll also want to make sure that you two can have dates that don't end in sex, or else you'll never be able to know if that's all the 'relationship' is about.