Guys, When boyfriend makes plans last minute - should I see him if I'm free or say I'm busy?

He works a lot and doesn't know when his shift will end. Sometimes at 6:30pm he'll call and ask if I'm free and want to do dinner/ movie etc.

should I say yes and go or will this make him think he can have me whenever he wants me?

OR should I say I'm busy and ask if he's free the next night.


Most Helpful Guy

  • if you are free then go if you are busy just tell him..


What Guys Said 1

  • If you're free be with him if not tell him your busy and if you're free but don't want to be with him say "I don't feel like it"

    • I'm scared he'll take me for granted if I say yes to his last minute plans...

    • That's the lamest excuse of all time