Is it OK to hit your SO?

I'm not talking on a daily basis, and no I have never hit a girl, but domestic abuse is a big issue these days. So I want to hear your opinions. This is any type of abuse, so it includes slapping or any other thing that is used to hurt your SO.

  • Its OK for a woman to hit a man if he cheats/"had it coming"
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  • Its OK for a man to hit a woman if she cheats/"had it coming"
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  • Its not OK to hit your SO
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  • Its on if a man or woman hits his/her significant other
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Most Helpful Girl

  • It's not okay on either parties to hit anyone. Female or male, its not ever right, I get the whole defending yourself but it's really sad if it has to resort to that.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Never. Unless it's on the ass or consented. Or play fighting

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What Girls Said 17

  • You shouldn't hit your SO. Period.

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  • It's only okay to hit your SO if y'all are play fighting and it's with soft pillows. :P
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  • The only time I would hit my SO is if he was hitting me or giving me reason to feel threatened enough that I felt physical force is necessary. Otherwise, woman or not, I have NO RIGHT to hit him and he has NO RIGHT to hit me.

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  • It is NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR OK to hit your SO... OR ANY OTHER PERSON! Period.

    LEarn to control your emotions and yourself! Go get a punching bag if you must.. but you NEVER hit another person, no matter how angry you are. That's part of life... learning to deal with anger and strong emotions ;)

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  • No duhhh!

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  • No! Never!

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  • It's never okay to lay your hands on anyone period. That's wrong as hell. Keep your hands to yourself peeps. Unless they strike you first. Then that's a different thing.

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  • It's never acceptable.

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  • No its not ok.

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  • Oh sure! But only every third Wednesday before noon. 😕

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  • You don't hit other people, unless they hit you first. And in the name of equal rights if a girl throws a tantrum and hits a guy I think it's fair game. I don't play that spoiled little princess crap

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  • Vote E = Its NOT okay to hit ANYONE!!!

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  • why the hell you want to hurt your SO.
    never ever u hurt her in any type of abuse

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  • It's never okay, whether you are male or female.

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  • No, it's not ok...

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  • Maybe if it's sexual/BDSM/consensual?

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What Guys Said 9

  • As long as she doesn't die...

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  • No, that is never ok to physically hit your SO under any circumstances.

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  • Rule number one that I learned in preschool: NO hitting. Every girl or boy who hits will get a timeout.

    It's weird how little kids can follow that rule WAY better than adults can, even though the consequences of hitting someone else as an adult are way higher. Instead of standing in the corner for 10 minutes, your timeout is JAIL.

    It's not okay for men to hit women. EVER.
    It's NOT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO HIT MEN EITHER.
    They deserve the exact same punishment.

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  • Forcefully out of anger no, but if it's lightly during play than it's OK, especially during a pillow fight or play wrestling.

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  • Anyone who hits me is going to get hit back, but I would NEVER take the first hit at someone.

    No such thing as "had it coming". If a girl cheated, I"d dump her ass, not hit her.

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  • Hell. No. I really, really hope you're a troll.

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  • All I know is, if someone beats up on one of my girl friends, I'm kicking his ass.

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  • It's never okay!

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  • Never okay. Goes for both genders.

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