I've been hurt so many times by guys and when I started dating the boyfriend I had treated me so badly he made me feel so worthless and told me how no guy will like me because of my looks and weight. I finally broke up with him ( it took me a year ) and it started back up again guys pretending to like me just so they can have sex and when I tell them I'm not interested the next day they stop talking to me ( but I'm not bothered but happy ) I finally meet someone and everyone thought he was in love with me because he use to always hold me and acts so happy when I'm around him, I told him how I felt and he said he wasn't attracted to me. So now I really have a hard time now and my friend made me feel like I'm a bad guy just because I don't think his bestfriend likes me.
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Trusting people is one of the most challenging tasks that people face. Trust needs to be earned, not given away freely. Once a person earns your trust then you have to try not to judge them by other people's past behaviour towards you , because if you do... you'd be missing out on any great potential relationships/friendships
Trusting someone is your decision, but proving you right is theirs. So if it turns out your trust is misplaced then that would be a reflection of their character... not yours