She cheated on me, said she got attracted to this other guy and she is sorry.
Now she is crying, begging, pleading etc.
Should i accept her or not?
Can a cheating person ever change?
- Accept her and watch her carefully, let her show her loyalty. People can change if they really regret what they did.39%(29)36%(48)Vote33%(19)
- Don't accept her, once a cheater always a cheater.61%(46)64%(85)Vote67%(39)
Most Helpful Girl
My experience with a guy that cheated:
We were very highly in love and romantic and he cheated several times and I took him back every time because he was so romantic. Every time he fucked up he would write 10 page letters, beg for me back, cry, etc, and he still did it until I finally decided not to date him again, which is hard but what is right. Just know that if she DID cheat, there is a lack of respect for you who are as a person - she did it in the heat of the moment and saw your face in her head and knew, consciously, that she did it and chose to betray you.
Just imagine yourself. If you truly love someone fully, would you ever DREAM of cheating on them? Would it even cross your mind to kiss, interact romantically, or have sex with anyone else than her?1
Most Helpful Guy
Cheating (male or female!) can be a one-time thing or can be a habit. Or can have a less evident cause.
If it's a habit, it's hard to say where it comes from. Not feeling desired?
Curiosity? Part of a bucket list?
A one time thing? Part of a bucket list? Getting drunk? If getting drunk once becomes an alcohol problem... If it's just getting drunk on parties you know how and why.
At 19 I wasn't able to pinpoint what happened ans why. I only realized it much later.2