I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for almost 3 weeks and he is everything I ever wanted in a guy. I want him to know that he is very special to me and I see a future with him. But I don't want to scare him away or make him think that I'm an overly-obsessive, psycho girlfriend. I just want to express my true feelings and be completely honest.
Well you might as well just say he is a father, I think he would just run in either case.. most guys in my view do not know even what they want from a women.. except sex... and most do not want any kind of relationship that tells them this is what I think may happen.. but give it a try if you think that is best, take care
I'd say thats too much and will get him thinking about committment, responsibility, etc... and it freak him. but you know him better. 3 weeks... um no... express your affection in other appropriate ways, cards notes, don't be over the top.
3 weeks is a little soon to be feeling that I think, but not uncommon for your age. If you really feel that way, tell him, you''ll feel better. BUT it could scare him off and he might leave... so your choice.
You really don't know that yet. When I was 19 my girl was younger and we made all kind of plans.. We were together for almost 5years we were young and I loved her very much... While in the process of her growing up she found someone else and she married the guy... So just enjoy each other as much as it is possible but don't scare him off.. And remember you may change your mind in the future...
I would wait until you've been together for at least (AT LEAST) a few months before you start talking about the future too much. Three weeks is nothing. It's great that you feel happy with him and like how things are going, but you don't truly know each other yet or understand what commitment will mean for the two of you. You are still in the very beginning stages of your relationship. Be patient.
Not after 3 weeks, that may just freak him out, I finally told my boyfriend I felt that way after 2 years and he didn't really comment on it. He told me he loved me on the first date so he wasn't allowed to freak out when I told him that, lol. But I would wait longer, maybe 6 months. I know it's a long time but you can show him how you feel and how much you love him without telling him you see yourself being his wife.
Well nearly 3 weeks is quite early, I wouldn't directly say ''I want to have your babies'' but maybe something like ''I hope you're my last first kiss'' or ''I hope you'll be in my future'' or something subtle like that
Yeah u should & he will not run away if he truly luvs u & in luv u both should be free to share each oder's feelings. my boyfriend says it himself dat he wants me only as his wife & i feel very happy wenever he says dat