Guys, do you ever friend request a girl you have been seeing or let her make the move?

I really really want to facebook friend this guy i have been seeing for 4 dates now, but I think that's because I'm highly curious to see all his photos and stuff. I'm debating it though because I want to stay mysterious and not ruin things by showing him I'm totally infatuated with him. In past relationships I became super obsessive and tried to find ex-gf's on there with photos and I would always check to see if they're online because I became curious to see what they are up to. I think I have decided that despite my obsessiveness nature I do really want to facebook friend him, but is it too soon? We have made out with each other for over 4 hours on the 3rd and 4th date already! I don't want to scare him off and seem desperate. He once made a comment on the 2nd date something about social media and how he hasn't added me yet. It was not obvious like a hint or anything, but it got me thinking about wondering when he would add me on social media. Should I add him?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • i hardly ever do it. i know guys will always do it cause they want to get in their pants. i let them do it so that i know they might want me in my pants, before i even try going there xD

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Most Helpful Girl

  • It depends on the guy. If you want to facebook friend him, then go for it. There is nothing wrong with that.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Is social media really that important? I don't see how friending someone on a media site is that important? Shouldn't you just worry about reality?
    I'm speaking from a place of ignorance, since i find social media pointless and refuse to make any.

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What Girls Said 1

  • No; don't let yourself do that yet. you're setting yourself up for trouble at this point in the game.

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