So the other day I had an amazing tinder date. The girl had a great personality, had a bit in common with me, and was knockout beautiful. She was getting touchy feely with me and our conversations flowed very well. We even made out at the end of the date. Not to put her on a pedestal as I keep my options open but I definitely felt a click with her more than others I've dated with.
Anyways, I texted her 2 days after our date and still got no response. Does everyone go by the 3 day rule? Where if you text before 3 days you seem clingy, but if you wait, you appear uninterested?
This is why I hate texting and dating. It's hard to tell the mannerisms and people may perceive texts the wrong way and one thing you say they don't like, could end it all.
I generally can tell when a date's bad but the worst is when you have an amazing date and the person suggests meeting again, texting them, etc but then they disappear/flake on you. I don't try to over analyze shit but it's hard to to resolve a problem when you don't see one present.
I never understood the whole three day thing. Just text or call her when you personally feel it's right. If she doesn't like it then so be it. Don't let others influence the way you date with stupid rules. Be yourself.
You said she was getting touchy, maybe she just wanted a hookup, that's why she hasn't replied to your text. Maybe she does want a relationship but you took too long to text. Maybe she's just making you wait like you did to her.
I don't know, only she knows, but I think 2 days is too late to text. I don't like waiting, I see no reason for it.
If the interest is really there, games are overrated. I'd be inclined to believe, as much as it sucks, that she decided against pursuing the relationship. Third date is usually the make or break date. I agree, I hate being blindsided when it seems all was going so well.
No! If a guy texts me three days later it is a turn off for me, not necessarily a deal breaker because if I like him I am still happy he texted. But, I hate guys that just don't do what they want to do and follow stupid "rules". I prefer two days, not three, and if they wait until 4 I might get nervous.
I wouldn't mind if a guy texted me the day after. Or even an hour after. I don't have the time to wait around and play games. Try to reach out to her one more time. If she doesn't respond, move on. She might be juggling between you and another guy/a few other guys and you didn't make the cut. Or she just doesn't feel the same way about you.
What rule was that? That's way tol long. If the date went well you're suppose to text her back the day of.
If I were her and you didn't text the night after I'd question myself on whether or not the date really went that well at all. Furthermore, if you finally decided to text me two days after I'd think you're just playing around with other girls and then just so happen to finally get back to me
When I go on a date, that evening I usually send a text thanking them for joining me and telling them I had a good time. I usually get a response by the next morning. I believe that rule is BS. Just don't constantly text them, go about your day, respond when it is convenient.
I don't know as I feel like same. I do it always. She said me I am annoying. But when I said okay now I don't want to talk to you she was like no please talk to me. As I am Hindu she is christen as I don't want to change my religion. As I said her she don't have to change her religion into hindu because it's no need. But she wants me to convert. As if I can convert but she can't do the same so I just wanted to be her friend. And about you its true. Girls get annoyed. But some of them
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