I don't get it. In real life no guys approach me or hit on me or talk to me. All they do is stare. On dating sites I get so many messages and compliments from guys. To be fair most girls do. I'm told i'm good looking or hot by every guy that messages me, they don't believe me when I say I never get hit on but it's true. It doesn't make sense.
Online dating sites are a medium designated for meeting obviously. We know you're on the site because of interest in meeting someone A lot of guys don't want to approach women during their dail routine. They don't know if you're looking for someone, if you're in a relationship, if you're busy and don't want to offend you or for you to feel uncomfortable. Think about why you don't approach men in public. Men's reasons are probably generally pretty similar.
That's because in this day of age, most men are to insecure or inexperienced to ask a girl out in person. It's much easier to hide behind a keyboard and write messages to someone without having to see their reactions on their face. A lot of people are missing out on how to interact face to face nowadays, do not take it personal.
Have you tried hitting on anyone in person? I imagine if you did, you would see different results.
the internet is about anonymity. some guys who are interested and the best fit for u won't respond because they're too shy. what i wanna stress to girls is, if u find a guy who you enjoy company with, u guys talk and get along... ask him out. shy guys need some motivation too.