I don't lash out at them, but when I'm alone I feel undesirable and feel really bad. Then when I find another girl I like I have to rebuild the courage to approach again, and if she rejects me then the process starts again.
Right now I'm in the stage where I want to ask her out, but I'm tired of living like this I want to not feel bad after rejection.
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its a part of life mate... its really a downer getting rejected. but hey... we are hunters bro, and they are the prey, they don't get a say... You do.
Gotta pick your battles... i never approach a girl i actually like head on, i plan that out so i don't get rejected. but for someone im just rolling dice with, i don't care.
Rejection happens, and i know the cycle you are talking about, believe me when i say "at least you have the courage to rebuild the courage"... some guys just don't.0