Can you miss something you have never had?

I am 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend.

Lately, I have been fantasizing about a boyfriend a lot. I want someone to protect, care and love me.

I feel like I need someone, eventhough I have been single all my life.

Is this normal?

I mean, how can I miss something I have never had?

Also, I am not in love, I just fantasize about random guys


What Guys Said 2

  • No, you cannot miss what you never had, logically that's not possible, you can only miss something that you once had but you don't have it now.

    In your case as you said you have always been single then it's not possible that you miss having a boyfriend, that's because you never had a boyfriend before so you never experienced what it is to be in a relationship, you never experienced what it is to have a boyfriend.

    It's not like you had a boyfriend before, and now you are single so you are missing having a boyfriend, it never happened like that with you

    Hence it's not possible that you can miss something you never had in your life..

    I think it's just that you want a boyfriend, or you want a relationship.

  • Then find someone 😶
    If you need one :P


What Girls Said 1

  • I don't think you MISS having a boyfriend. You just want one.