Okay so we've been friends for about 9ish months, and I've had a crush on him for about half the time, but I feel like it's early for me to be feeling this way? It just makes me worry that I'm going to fuck things up by being too much too fast.
No it's normal you've had plenty of time to get to know him. If you two just met, maybe give it more time especially in emotional expression of love toward him. If you two are just now starting to go out, give him a chance to fall in love with you. Be open, be honest if asked things, and be vulnerable, once he gets a taste of all that if he hasn't already, he may feel the same as you do. Guys tend to fall in love faster than girls, so he may have been in love with you all this time and you don't know it.
That doesn't sound weird at all. Love is something that you can't really put a time-limit on (as in you can only love someone after a certain amount of time has passed). As I'm sure many of us have come to learn, love is something that will evade you when you seek it the most, then catch you by surprise when you're not expecting it.
(I felt like I may be in love with my boyfriend after we'd been together for just a month, though hanging out as friends for a few months beforehand. I dismissed the thought as to me, it was too early on to be anything more than lust. We've now been together for over 2 years and in hindsight, I can no see that by then, I'd already fallen.)
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