Meeting girls isn't a problem because I'm a college student so there are plenty of females out there. I'm naturally a very decent and respectful guy and I treat women, even strangers who I'm passing by very nicely. I smile, I say good morning, while conversing I'm always polite. This seems to always lead to the friend zone. When I look for advice, people tell me I have to turn into an asshole and put on a front and the girls will come flocking. The problem is, that's just not who I am. I don't feel right doing that. I'd rather remain who I am. Any advice?
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you need to be forward and assertive, give the girl a reason to say yes. being pleasant and respectful isn't going to get you bonus points because it's assumed everyone is supposed to be that way. assholes get attention because they stand out from the crowd, but that's not the only way to get attention.0