so I've been talking to this guy for a month, everything was great We hung out a couple of times & talked on the phone, texted here & there. Now it seems like he doesn't write to me at all unless I initiate it. Do I just let him reach out to me or do I keep trying? I just feel like I'm chasing him at this point.
Most Helpful Guy
make yourself available to talk to other guys and do so. you should be doin this up until the 2nd or 3rd date. it forces u to keep connections light and encourages more effort from the guys as you'll be busy more often than not.
dedicating urself to one person the second u begin texting is foolish. if they're not initiating like they have before what else can it mean? go text someone else. he'll figure it it n start saying hello again.
Most Helpful Girl
If you have been reaching out to him first every time then I would stop and see if he does. Guys like a chase too, and you are not giving him that. He also may just be being nice and responding but trying to fade, so stop and see if he texts you and that will be your answer.1