Hi! Hope you can help me with some advice! I met a guy about one month ago. We went for a short walk and then we talked on the phone for 2 weeks. Then he invited me on a second date. It was nice but we contradicted on certain philosophical topics on which we had different views. It's been three weeks since then and he hasn't called me. A few days ago I went to a public place where I knew he used to go. He was there. I tried not to look at him so as not to give him the impression that I was there for him. When he passed by me he looked down and didn't say hi. I know he doesn't like me as a girlfriend. If he had liked me, he would have called me after our second date. But why didn't he say hi? We are no longer strangers. We have dated twice and talked on the phone several times! He could have at least said "hi"! We are no longer teenagers, we are grown-ups! What does his attitude mean? Should I have called him first after our second date? What would he think if, after 3 weeks of no contact, I send him a SMS, apologizing for contradicting him and suggesting him that we should at least be friends?
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Do not apologize for contradicting him. In fact, don't ever do that. You are entitled to your own thoughts and opinions, and you shouldn't let anyone other than yourself ever change that. You should always stick to what you believe in (although be open to the fact that what you believe in may not be correct).
The fact that he looked down and didn't say hi could mean that he's avoiding you, but there's also the very slight possibility that he got embarrassed when he saw you there. And by embarrassed, I mean nervous. I know this because it happens to me all the time. =.= I doubt this is the case though, and do believe he is in fact avoiding you for what happened on the second date.
If you want to make sure, do send him and text, asking him how he's been doing and stuff. The worst thing that can happen is he won't reply, at which point I sincerely hope you don't get taken aback by that, because it's proof this guy is incredibly rude and not worth your time. Just forget about him and move on. Good lucky! =p0