Help me! Am I too fat to go on a date with a guy?

Basically I used to be in love with this guy but never told him. He moved away and now he is back. We have got back in touch. I am 5"6 and around 189lbs (just lost 20 lbs recently). I feel like I carry the weight pretty well. Back when he last saw me I was around 177lbs. I feel as though I have got prettier though. I'm 21 and he is 32. Do you think I'm going to be too fat for him and he's not gonna like me?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • it should never be about your size it should be about him liking u for you and your personalitiy

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    • Thank you yeah I guess it should be X

    • your welcome i always go for personality but then again i am into bigger girls

Most Helpful Girl

  • Than lose some weight

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    • That is what I am doing! Already lost 20lbs. I'm working extremely hard. And have overcome a serious eating disorder and unfortunately when I started to try and get my weight and health back it came on a little quick. I am now trying to do it the right way. I didn't ask if I should lose any weight, I asked if I'm too fat to date him!

What Guys Said 4

  • I'm sure you are just fine. If you have compatible personalities, magic could happen!

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  • Don't worry, just believe that you are good looking. I've seen some slightly overweight women that are very pretty.

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  • I think he will like you just fine. Lots of men like curvy women.

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  • Would have to see a pic to say for sure but who knows maybe he likes bigger girls

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What Girls Said 1

  • Well, you sound absolutely lovely to me:)
    In short, as long as you are happy and healthy, it does not matter what anyone else thinks. If he is truly worth your time, he won't care if you're not a size 0. Good luck!

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    • Thank you very much how sweet and kind of you X

    • Certainly:) I find it simply terrible how society decides that beauty can only come in a few shapes.

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