Soooooooooooo, I known this little Latin bombshell for about 7 years now and I have made plenty of attempts to exit the dreaded "friendzoned" but she maintains her feelings for me are as that of a best friend -_-. Well after the umpteenth time of trying to make a move and getting rejected, I decided that I did not want to be in her life as a friend anymore. Honestly I took it really personally and felt as though I was worth a shot at a relationship. So when she said I jus don't see u like that I just cut her off completely I don't talk to her we don't hang out or go out to movies or smoke; nothing. I jus feel like I'm a catch and she doesn't deserve to get my personality, my care or my opinion on her problems frankly. She texts me every now and again to express how much she misses our friendship but I just want to be left alone if we can't date. I don't have a lot of friends and she knows that but I'm not lonely in a sense of i need friendship. Am I wrong for not wanting to be friends if we can't date? I'm sorry if I sound like a cocky Ass hole I'm just being honest.
Most Helpful Girl
You're free to not be her friend if you don't want to, but I think you're being selfish for not even trying to see it from her side. As in, why she's not attracted to you. You might think you're a catch but clearly, for some reason, she doesn't. Judging her for not wanting to be with you is really petty, you can't control other people's feelings and clearly she doesn't view you as relationship material. It doesn't matter if you think you're a catch, she doesn't see you that way and therefore didn't want to give it a shot. And that's fine, just as fine as it is for you to not want to be her friend.3
Most Helpful Guy
You're not wrong. What I would have said, "I wasted many years trying to get to the next level with you. It was a waste of time, frankly I can't be ;just friends", fuck you bitch, have a nice life". Walk off and never, ever have anything to do with her. Treat her like a bad boy would and she may come groveling to you. If this happens, and it might, use her, punp and dump her and find someone worthy.
Clearly, in my opinion she isn't.1