I was casually seeing/ friends with a man for over 2 years. He was not ready for a relationship apparently but I believe he did (does?) have feelings for me. I now worry that because he knows i want more, he's decided to never speak to me again. It's been almost 3 weeks. Is he over me? Does he despise me? The last time we spoke/saw each other it wasn't bad. Is he trying to do me a favor by exiting stage left?
Could he be waiting for me to contact him first?
Why do I feel like because he hasn't contacted me that he hates me when I haven't done anything wrong---he just knows I want more.
And damn, that's a lot of questions... my apologies.
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I would and have removed myself from a woman's life because I felt I couldn't provide the treatment she deserved.
Now I don't know how things went down with you two, but if he said, "I'm done", then its over and move on. If not, if you had a discussion, you did or said nothing mean or terrible, then thinking he's mad or hates you is catastrophising.
Only he can say what his motivations are.1
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