I caught my boyfriend out on a lie at the beginning of realtionship and now the trust is a little bit dented. He is trying his best to fix things up with me. But the one thing I want to do is check his phone. I haven't asked him yet but how would you react if someone brought this up? I know if he asked to see my phone if give it to him because I have nothing to hide.
So so if they asked would you let them?
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My boyfriend snooped on my phone/email early in the relationship. If he had just asked I would have shown him because while I don't generally like people looking at my private shit, I really don't have anything bad to hide. I'd be a bit hurt that he didn't trust me but if I had done something to break my partner's trust, like your boyfriend did, I would also understand it and want to help reassure my partner. Of course that goes to a certain degree too. If my partner is taking that to the extreme and wanting to check everything regularly, that's too much in my opinion.1