I hate my height, I cannot stand my height because girls make me feel crap about it. Standing only at 5'10 (with shoes, 5'9 w/o) I wonder did I do something wrong. Did I fail to do something throughout my teenage years that didn't make me as tall as other guys? Did those other guys accomplish something that I didnt? What could I have possibly done to become tall enough to get accepted?
Why do girls have to make me feel bad about something I had zero control over? Do you have any idea what its like to be cursed with something that makes you unattractive and less masculine to the opposite sex and there is nothing you can do to change it.
Why do you have to make us feel bad, why can't you just accept us?
From girls : "I need a guy to be at least 6'1 so I can feel more feminine and protected, short guys make me feel big" -> very common
From guys: "I need a girl with big boobs and amazing ass because if she doesn't have it she's not a real woman, I cannot stand girls with boy bodies " -> less common
Sexual dimorphism is where the sexes have physical differences, and example of which is that men are, on average, are taller than women. People tend to be attracted to extremes of dimorphism, which is why many guys (except the guys on GAG for some reason) like girls with large breasts, or a large butt, or a very narrow waist, or in your instance short girls.
Sexual selection theory, a branch of evolutionary theory, posits that the differences are seen as signals to which the other sex responds. The larger the difference, the stronger the signal, the greater the response.
First of all you are definitely not short. At the very least you're average and in some cases you might be tall. Sexondly, you should not let one bad experience define the rest of your life. As far as I can say, ths majority of girls just want someone who's a bit taller than them and don't have a specific height and you are taller than a lot of girls.
What? You're not short so stop whining xD It's probably all in your head, you repel girls because of the insecurity you've built up IN YOUR HEAD. It's the insecurity that bothers most of them girls, not your actual height.
Are you serious 5'10 is the perfect height tf? Lol. The guy i'm interested in is 5'10 and he's perfect. I am very very short though so anything above 5'2 is considered tall to me lol. Don't worry! Many girls can overlook height.
You're 5'10? That's fine with me! As long as you're not under 5'5 if totally date you 😘
Because the media imposes unrealistic ideals on both genders now. They got women first... but clearly it's hitting guys too. Big/short guys are depicted as funny in the media... so not boyfriend material. Big boobs/ass has been a cliche for years now especially with the internet and I'm sure a galaxy's worth of porn videos. Shallow, feeble minded little girls and boys eat the media up and get these messages pounded into their head that they have to be this or that. I personally feel that pressure- I've been pushing myself to lose weight and get tattoos. I'm short too... so I have to fix my body in other ways. It's bullshit, but I'm not trying to die alone either. In conclusion- it's not you. It's the media and the morons who eat it up.
Girls complain about how guys make them feel insecure about their weight and all that bullshit yet continue to praise tall guys way more than we praise skinny and fit girls. Their hypocrisy is unreal. I'm 5'8 myself. This is why I gave up on girls and chose to accept a single life till death. Mind is at a much greater peace when you're not feeling like you're never good enough for them and what can you do to improve yourself.
Hahaha Only at 5'9/10 YOUR NOT SHORT! I'm around 5'10 that's roughly average mate. P. S people overestimate the size of everything and many guys who are 5'9 claim to be 6 foot as they think that's what the average is and would feel inadequate otherwise. Most girls probably think a 5'11 guy is 6'1. I'm around the same height as you and I don't feel bad being the average height of a male why should I? Think you might have an inferiority complex.
I'm 5 10 and l rarely feel short. I wouldn't date a girl who would objectify you like that dude. Your taller than most girls anyways. If a girl would not date you for that then l would honestly say their not worth your time.
Oh boy you're 5'9, I'm 5'7 never has anyone made me feel like crap because of my 170cm height. I can care less what others think of my height and really why care? Most girls are pretty short themselfs at 5'5.