For instance, why do some guys match on Tinder and not start conversations? But if I message them first, they will respond. I'm thinking of a few possibilities here: 1) they just use it for an ego boost 2) they're shy (seriously?)
What are your opinions? (:
Most Helpful Guy
guys have become so neutered, that a lot of them ARE actually shy online. Yes i know, blows my mind too... But i've seen it on GaG several times... guys confessing they are too shy to initiate a conversation with a girl online for goodness sake -_- This is why the times we live in are the absolute best for average guys like myself to get women. With just an ounce of confidence, you put yourself ahead of like 90% of guys these days, and girls end up noticing that. Anyways, it could also be for an ego boost but i wouldn't bank on that. That's more of a girl thing to do online1
Most Helpful Girl
In general, I just assume guys who never initiate contact feel indifferent towards me and I'm never in their mind. So I'd just not bother contacting them again.
I've never used dating sites but I'd assume if a guy is genuinely attracted to you then he'd initiate contact. Why bother joining one, if he's too shy to initiate contact.0
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