Nowadays is all about the social media but, I'm curious to know if you were to get a bf/gf and you made it official. Do you have to put it up on Facebook or could you live your life without putting it up on Facebook? (this only applies to those who have an account on Facebook)
Would you be mad if your bf/gf didn't want to put it up on Facebook simply because she/he doesn't want to/care to? Or would you be ok wit it as long as the status doesn't say single. (In this case you would just not show your relationship status and it would just be hidden)
- Yes, it is extremely important for him/her to put it up on FacebookVote A
- No, i dont care. As long as the status doesn't say "single"Vote B
I believe that everyone has their own reasons why it should or shouldn't be on Facebook and according to these answers it all depends on the situation.
I wish I could pick more than one MHO!!
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I think it's a problem to be avidly against showing any evidence of the fact there is someone special in your life. But it's not a necessity to have the status up as long as you make it known. Broadcasting a"single" image in my opinion is bad, unless you have to for work. Most people who do that on social media do it so they can cheat without other women knowing of the girlfriend or to maintain the image so other people are still open to hitting on them.
Just ask yourself honestly. Would you really care if everyone knew you were in a happy, committed relationship with someone you were proud to be with? Would you really be avid about no one knowing if you were proud? Do you really think everyone is going to "be in you business" if you put up a relationship status? That's an over inflated sense of self if that's what you actually believe, but most times it's just an excuse. If you share a lot of your life and what you do on social media, but leave out the fact you have a girlfriend then it's really just an excuse lol.
I don't know anyone that said, "FUCK! They know I have a girlfriend!" Unless they wanted to appear single and possibly cheat.2