What made you give up/lose hope? How old were you?
Most Helpful Guy
I sacrificed everything for one girl I thought she was an angel and felt so sorry because I believed her stories about how hard her life was and how people used her, so I went after her blindly and never believed any stories about her and I even fought my family and friend and went to a different country with her to start a new life with her and marry her, she was everything that an angel can be and do, so while I was deep drunk in love and working my ass off day and night to collect enough money for the wedding and buying furniture for the house while she was sitting at home, one day I had a phone call when I was on a work trip and then after few investigation and phone calls for couple of days, I discovered that everything was a game she was cheating on me with multiple number of guys and even back in my country all stories were right and she played a game to make my friends and family fight with me ! she even tried to cheat on me with my friend, and when everything was clear and I had the chance to talk to her over phone she was laughing and talking crazy and saying that I wasn't an enough man for her and I didn't do anything for her !
so I didn't go back, I got heart broken and was locking my self in home for three months, cause I lost my family, friends, dream job, house, car, money I was collecting for years believing a psycho lair slut !
so yes I can't trust anyone no matter how an angel she looks like cause you never can know what's behind that face !
I'd rather build my life back, take care of my family and adopt two children and sleep comfortably at night !0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm kind of at that point now. I am 26 and I've been online for a while. I don't meet single guys when I'm out and about. So it's kind of tough for me to meet anyone
I'm at the point now where I'm just trying to enjoy the life I have right now. I am getting a lot of pressure from my mom to have kids, but I don't even have anyone in my life right now. It makes me feel really sad at times. But I've told her I have a hard time meeting guys.
I guess what's making me want to give up is that I don't see any progress. Like I've put in effort and have been trying, but guys have lukewarm interest at best. And they won't really put much effort in after a couple dates. Which is okay if they aren't interested, but I don't know why they aren't.
People always ask what's wrong with me, but I have no idea. I'm really nice and I treat guys really well.1
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