You should count yourself as one of the lucky ones... its not all its put up to be, the drama is unreal. Wish I could say the same, but im on the other side of that spectrum lol. Trust me on this though, work on becoming a better person, and guys will notice. if worse case comes to the worst, im sure you have a crush or something, do the asking yourself. Its better to have some experience on relationships before its marriage season, lets you know what to and what not to expect when rings come into play.
I used to think something was wrong with me when I didn't have a boyfriend. But what I learned from my first relationship is that you don't need a boyfriend to make yourself feel good about yourself. And that being in a relationship is more than just saying "I love you." There's commitment involved and responsibilities, communication, trustworthy, etc and sometimes unnecessary drama and pointless arguments. If you want a boyfriend put yourself out there. Go out and meet people and socialize with people. I learned the the hard way that having a boyfriend isn't everything. There are many people in the same boat as you so don't get so upset about it. Just focus on yourself and do you and be you.
its been..10 years maybe longer since i had a girl freind. and while it sounds sad its really relaxing , and not just because im 43 and have excepted my fate or any of that other new age stuff. i just dont feel like i want to be in a relationship. but i can't say i will feel like that tomorrow if i meet a girl. but im not breaking my neck for some social status only some young kid would do that. i can't afford the hospital bill from hurting myself trying to keep up with that stuff.
Remind yourself that a LOT of people are in the same boat as you, both men and women. Hell, I've never had a girlfriend either. I feel like you do sometimes, although I may not be as emotional about it as you. If anything, use this as motivation to improve yourself.
I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 21. I feel sorry that you are crying over this fact, but it is truly not the end of the world. Do you have friends you trust to possibly set you up with someone? I know that's not exactly the best way to meet someone, but give it a chance with them around. If it goes south at least they will be there so you have them to walk away with. They can also be a great vetting source for an individual. Friends will do checks on someone to make sure you are safe before you go out, or they set you up with someone if they are true friends.
By knowing that you have not found anyone compatable with you yet. You are still you with or without a guy. While it should be a goal to be in a relationship with some one it should not be to high of a priority. Just smile and relax at least you don't have your whole family constantly on your back about it.
Why would you cry? you didn't even break up I'm 23 and i never cried over not having a girlfriend
Well, if you're sad about lack of sexual experience... I mean have you watched porn or masturbated or used toys? Sure none of that may be real, but you'd be far from immature or not knowing anything about your likes/dislikes and your body.
If it's about the emotional side... most people including me have A LOT of drama in their relationships. And breakups or even ghosting can be really common. You could be crying right now about an evil guy too. So don't feel bad for no reason!