I finally found a girl that really turns me on and I find super attractive without her even trying. In my other relationships I found that I was always thinking I could do better... Do you think I'll eventually have this feeling again? anybody feel like this before? here's a pic of my current girlfriend (without a face) don't want to sell her out lol
No. I usually wonder if I am not enough for him. It's not that I think I am ugly, it's just I know I am not beautiful. I'm on the average scale. I'm also shy and not the life of the party. He usually has a line up of girls. I always wonder why he only has eyes for me. There is this one girl at his work that hits on him constantly despite the fact that he chose me over her. I've always wondered why because she is extremely beautiful and is extremely outgoing. I feel like I won the lottery when it comes to him because I've never met a more devoted guy. I do everything I can to make sure he is happy and never bored with me. I just wonder what it is about me.
Nope, can't say such a thought has ever crossed my mind. I've never had such a lack of confidence in our relationship to think that things may go wrong because of our compatibility in respect to attractiveness, of all things.
I got a lot to say that I be thrown off this website for saying it. You don't marry the hottest girl you're with because there's always going to be another one hotter. Like being the fastest gun there's always someone faster. You form a relationship with a human being that involves a give-and-take in a partnership. It is obvious you not ready
No. I need to be attracted to someone on some level but I'm not hung up on finding a perfect 10 and all of that. A relationship based on looks isn't special at all. If a guy has nothing more to offer than good looks, I'll get bored quickly. Therefore I care more about personality. This is very true for me. in the past I've liked guys who most would agree aren't generally attractive, but maybe they were smart or funny, so I didn't care.
i dated someone who i found attractive but whenever we went out like even just holding hands on the street guys would ask me why im with him and to be with them instead or scream it from their car as they passed out saying rude things like "he's gotta have a big dick for HIM to be with YOU"
that it finally started to get to me
I do find myself thinking that sometimes... but I find its not because of their looks but more a bad parts of their personality turns me off.