we broke up 3 weeks ago. He has been hangingout with another girl. I've been dwelling on him for 3 weeks thinking he might come back or he still cares. I know he doesn't. But I feel like I need to come to reality and move on so if I text him and he rejects me I'll be forced to move on and if he takes me back then we will get back together. What should I do?
if you are out of the relationship with him talking to him now would send mixed signals and he might not take it as serious unless he knows you well enough. i would let it go and find someone for yourself.