Hello, my ex broke up with me a week ago and I just wanted to put things into perspective, pls help to see if the relationship was worth it or not.
We met 2-3 times a week for sleepovers, always at his house or mine, I cooked all the time for him, we would play video games and watch YouTube videos all day. I've suggested dinner/movies/kayaking/other stuff and he wouldn't be interested. I don't mind staying at home but it feels like he kept me a secret from his friends. His family knew me though.
I play and compose music well and he's just starting a band, wouldn't let me join or help them even though they need a keyboardist. He is affectionate but doesn't kiss much and when we have sex he doesn't look at me. And he faces the other way when he's sleeping. He's made empty promises, like how we would go camping and hiking, never did. When I suggest activities he'd always reply 'not interested'
Are are all relationships like this? I mean apart from eating, movies etc there's nothing else to do? I don't know whether to be upset about the break up or know there's someone better. Pls help
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like he wasn't interested in learning your passions in life. You will find someone better who wants to try everything with you. They won't like it all, but they will at least be interested.
No judgement on him of course. It's possible you were just not matched well. For example maybe he enjoyed playing those games much more then yourself, and that is he said no to other activities.
You'll find someone. Everyone relationship is unique.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes life has more.0