I know why it still hurts but when will it stop? I was just seeing this guy a few weeks and I did not even expect/want more from this situation but I hooked up with him and now it has been almost a month and it still bothers me and just noticed he still likes his ex's pics on fb which always bothered me, I am so upset. When will this stop? When will i not care?
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I was in your exact same situation! Ditto, even the liking the ex's pictures part. It bothers you because you feel like he should've given you more than he did. You feel used and you want to justify having sex with him. Let me give you some advice. SPEAK NO EVIL, HEAR NO EVIL, SEE NO EVIL. Don't talk to him, don't respond to any messages and do not under any circumstances see him again. Cut him out completely, even if he's not messaging you or ignoring you, please delete him from your facebook, unfollow him, delete his number, delete pictures you had together (or put them on a USB if you feel like you'll want to look back on the memories later when you're over him). This is the only way to forget him. Occupy yourself with other things and you'll slowly start to think less about him, or at least thinking about him won't hurt anymore.
Mine is even worse, I lost my virginity to him and he turned out to be a complete asshole. I wrote poems about him, drew pictures of him. I swear to god I've never fallen so hard. It took me months and months of going back and forth with him before it finally started to hurt less. This is why I'm telling you not to see him again. I know it might be hard, but it's the only way. our brains are very clever, when they have no new information to feed off of, they forget about a subject. Even if it's someone we deeply care about, if the source of information is cut, your brain will eventually forget about them.0
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