via text mainly. I don t wanna ignore him but I don;t wanna lead him on since I am always too nice.
so how can I make it clear that I am not interested but stay friends with him>
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Honestly, the "soft let down" tends to hurt guys even worse because they know you're not only rejecting them, but you're pitying the absolute shit out of them and think they can't handle you being straight up.
Just tell him flat out: "Listen it was nice getting to know you but I don't see this going anywhere. There's just no chemistry and I don't want to lead you on because you're actually really cool and fun to hang out with."
It's sweet but it's to the point.1