The guy I liked said I was 'not worth much because of my sayings and instability'. I got hurt and pissed attacked him through text calling him a 'white person who thinks he is all that'. Was I in the wrong? I am black, just wanted to hurt him back.
Most Helpful Guy
So I knew you were black when I read your quote of what you said...:) I grew up around many black people... I'm white.
So hurting someone just to hurt him back is wrong and useless. What this guy said is he sees in you some issues. If you were more mature youd find out what he means and assess if he is right, then work on those things. He may have been immature and mean but tried to point out some flaws in you.
I'd seriously get some counseling to improve your self esteem and self image. You are immature... not a shock for 23, but might as well work on your self now than burn up a bunch of relationships learning the harder way.
Most Helpful Girl
Strangely enough... if a black guy said something similar to me... I would probably just laugh. I wouldn't take this seriously. But... that is just me was disrespectful of him to speak directly about the way you talk. You were just mad, and that is okay. One of my best friends is black and I love her to death! Anyway... how did he react to your text?0