Well it depends. I'm the type of person that likes to talk things out if they're not right and I expect the same back. I wouldn't merge well with someone that just shuts down. That being said if I royally fucked up and she really needed space, I'd give her all the space she needed. But normally I'd try and contact right away and get some answers because I can't really go on with my day if there's an on going issue with someone I like.