I'm going on a date this week with a guy I met online off of tinder and this will be my very first date. I'm nervous because I've never been on a date and have never kissed a guy. I'm not interested in kissing him until I know if there is a possibly of a relationship. What would be a nice way to reject a kiss?
Thanks everyone fro your answers. I wasn't expecting so many answer but I'm going to tell him before the date the situation. I'll find a way to sneak it in there lol. Like Oh random facts about me My favorite food is alligator, I've never skied, sky dived, kissed someone, and I always make sure to tip at a restaurant. Thanks for your help everyone!
He might get the wrong idea and it could get awkward if you don't bring this up and leave it too late. The best way to avoid an awkward monent is to be honest. Explain that you only kiss people when you get to know them over a light hearted chat at the start of the date. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that and he'll respect that, I'm sure.
Pretend to sneeze. Lol If his eyes are closed just do a powerful sneeze that throws your head forward and smacks him in the face with your hair then proceed to get up and go to the restroom or find a reason to leave the situation then later come back.
Have a friend on emergency-save me/this date sucks-dial. Have her call you in the middle of the date so you can conveniently leave due to an "emergency".
Like Joeshev said, it may be best to come right out early on and tell him, or tell him during a convo before the date. If you don't get that chance and you end up on the date, when he tries to kiss you just turn your head and offer your cheek.
well i would think whole eating dinner with him or whatever it is you have planed i would just bring it up in a none nervous way that you dont like being kissed on the first date. if you feel like he wants one.
Tell him "I'm nervous because I've never been on a date and have never kissed a guy. I'm not interested in kissing you until I know it they're is a possibility of a relationship." Nothing is nicer than honesty.
Either say it before it gets to that point (like as a matter of fact rather than it being a weird topic of discussion) or when he leans it just put your hand softly on his face and explain your boundaries. so the hand catches the kiss but also serves as a soft and non-threatening gesture.
well depends if he s persistent or not lol. when I had my first kiss I actually turned my face away so he won t but he just grabbed my face again, turned it upward and went full on french kiss lol I was so confused xD my method didn t work lol