We know each other for about 2 months and we've been dating for 4 months. We are really close. He says I make him laugh, calls me his love and beautiful, if it matters, yea we did have sex (oddly only calls me baby during sex). He goes MIA sometimes and doesn't talk to me for a few hours, also he's only spoken about me to his friends and doesn't like when I take pictures of him, this made me suspicious and wonder if he had a girlfriend and if possibly I was engaging in a relationship with a taken guy and I wasn't having that. When I asked him, he said "no, i don't have a girlfriend. Am I talking to someone else? Yes". I didn't even know what to say, I didn't think that would be what he said. So I played it off like it didn't upset me as if I'm doing the same, but it did. I never really approached him with anything I had a problem with because I don't want to seem to attached and push him away. But I am upset and we had sex the same night because I'm a dummy. I also understand how fun dating can be... but I hate feeling like I'm competing knowing I could possibly lose and not knowing anything about this other chick... But at the same time, he's said to me that he likes me a lot and doesn't really want to see me with anyone else (this is when we sorta established what we are). I'm not sure what to do... I'm not sure how to go about this. I like him so much and don't really wanna leave him.. hoping that's not what I have to do!
Most Helpful Guy
if you really like him like you said then i would jsut try and relax, i mean if he was really wanting to play games with you i think you would pick up on that, your not as dumb as some people might think. and im talking about relationships not in general so dont get mad for me saying that.
and there is an old that goes "if you have to ask you already know" it can be true in some cases but i would give it some time till you feel more secure with him and if you can't be you should let him know and that he should not be so friendly with other girls.0
Most Helpful Girl
If he's sleeping with you then he shouldn't be seeing anyone else - at least that is the way us women think. Unfortunately, unless you actually set it out in black in white and official 'we are together' (and before you start sleeping with him) then the chances are he is going to continue to see other people. And I kinda think that if you are not together within 8 weeks of starting to date then u shouldn't keep seeing them because they are probably wasting your time.
Also - you can't leave someone you aren't actually with in the first place... and considering he is seeing other people, he isn't with you. Or at least, he doesn't believe himself to be.0