I'm shy, I admit but I don't have problems keeping a conversation going under normal circumstances. With him it's different though. When we hang out, it seems like I have nothing to say. No matter how hard I try I just can't come up with anything. Even if we're hanging out in a group of friends, I keep silent while everyone else is talking. Do you think it's nervousness? I know he's attracted to me so maybe that's what makes me nervous, I don't know. I'm usually rather quite compared to others but definitely not to this extent... Could it be that I like this guy or do we simply lack chemistry/compatibility? He's really making an effort to talk to me but he's not very talkative himself so we we often have awkward silence...
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Yep. I am shy too and I hate that part of it!! I could be friends and talk with someone no problem until I realize I like them and then all of sudden, silence! It is not a lack of chemistry but it is easier if someone is a little more talkative. You could both pursue it and both have to gradually become more comfortable around each other to talk more. Just try to think of things to ask him before you hang out. You do like him but two shy people is a little tricky. One time me and this guy were very attracted to each other but he was pretty quiet and like you, I am not usually that quiet but I fed off his awkwardness and I got awkward and in the end that didn't work. Not saying it won't for you, just depends on how long you two are worth being patient at becoming more comfortable.1
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