He lives with the child's mother and says they are planning on moving out seperatly soon. He is 25 years old. His sons mother is 30 years old
Most Helpful Guy
There seems to be some contradiction but the thin is shit happens and some times midigating a shit situation is the only thing two people can do. Clearly there is some interesting back story to qhy this guy is living like that so first thing I would do is figure out the back story and co ferm that they aren't still dating by asking her. Now you've said he child's mother plans on moving out soon so apparently it was shared property between him and the mother and she is opting for a different space. I'd say if they are so good with each other that they are midigating this in such a calm way then that speaks qounders about his caricature in a positive. Think about it like this would you have handled such a situation so well if it where you. Now not to give him a world of credit it's still a break up and with a child on the middle things can seem difficult but from what I can see the difficulty is managed well and can continued to be managed.
Now here is a question why did they break up do you know?0
Most Helpful Girl
No. The living with the child's mother part was the real dealbreaker. But even without that, the baby is only five months old. The whole parenting thing is still new, he's obviously still working closely with the mom, and the baby (and therefore the mom) are going to require a huge amount of his time and life at this stage. If the child was older to the point where the guy had his own relationship with the child in a way that was more separate from the mom, then I would feel more comfortable with it. But this, no way. A new baby would make things complicated enough, let alone living with the mom- that's just craziness.3