guys can be confusing af I swear -_-
ok look, a guy contacted me a few days and started flirting with me on the phone and all then asked if we could see each other.
So we planned to see each other for lunch then he just came after practice (he s like a professional tennis player) and brought his guy friend too lol.
I mean I don t mind being buddies it s just I am confused on why would he flirt and all and then it turned out so casual xD
it was def not a date right?
I want more feedback lol
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Since you didn't give details about the friend, I'm gonna shoot in all directions.
what FrenchyRomain said:
1) "HE NEEDS A WINGMAN !!! HE NEEDS TO FEEL CONFIDENT WITH A FRIEND !! DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND MEN?"
2) He flirted to assess your openness about it, and he asked to meet, because he thought it would be fun to flirt in real life, but then chickened out, and realised that he's a different person on the phone, and couldn't do it in real life, so he brought a friend to make it casual, but was still interested in you.
3) He could have been acting as the wingman himself. He flirted to see how open you were to meet, because he had a friend who was interested and was afraid to ask, so the wingman asks, brings the friend and then introduces them (or if you've seen How I met Your Mother -> "Hi, have you met Ted?")
4) You asked a question before about being too friendly/flirty, and sometimes passing the wrong image to others. He might be like that as well, and he got chatty and enthusiastic, and suggested meeting cause it would be fun to hang around, but then he thought that you would think it could be a date (when it wasn't), so he brought the friend, so it would be just a friends thing, and you didn't think it was a date.
Which one do you think sticks more? (to me is 2 or 4)1
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