hey, i really didn't know where else to look too.. so here i go, i started dating this guy about two months ago now, before he met me he was single for 3 years. he was the type to always have one night stands. i was really curious and confused cause i have been really hurt in the past, and i came across escort sites, and pictures of women. he was in the shower and i confronted him freaking out.. i know bad idea.. but i was really upset because i REALLY started to care for this guy.. he's 22 and im 21. seems like he has a huge problem with this.. like, i dont feel as if im filling his sexual needs because I've only been with 6 people, and I've also told im not good at sex.. and he has told me im not sure what to do because of that reason.. not good at riding or anything like that.. but i like it freaky.. which he likes.. anyways, i told him about what i seen and freaked out.. i noticed a bunch of random numbers on his phone too, not thinking much of it but i asked him who they were and he couldnt really tell me. so my mind was wandering there. he said its normal for him to look at stuff like that.. which i think is disgusting, he's like to do things like that is fine because it helps the urge, and doesn't make you cheat. im a little confused... apparently he gets turned on by the fact they are locals.. its like WHY ARE YOU WITH ME THEN... you see there face ever again i look like the idiot, cause you seen them fucking naked.. he also shows photos to the people he works with, and asks them if they are fuckable or not.. really dont know how to take this.. he broke his phone in anger, and he was so upset that i at to find out his darkest secrets.. but he swore to me he was just looking.. besides, he doesn't even really have time for that.. he works all the time.. but he does get back late sometimes, like super late. I don't know what to do really... any advice? is this fucking normal
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Porn? Yes. Escort Sites? Ummm... is he looking at the pictures, or is he meeting prostitutes? That's what an escort is, a glorified prostitute. Someone probably without the balls for porn so they just sneak around sleeping with dudes.
Honestly, I'd be running to a clinic to get tested before I even confronted him. If he's actually meeting them that's really gross. If he's just fantasizing, that's really normal.0