Everything I say seems to go in one ear and out the other. I remember almost everything he tells me but he can't remember simple things like I have an exam that day. Even if I've been talking about that exam all week. Tomorrow (or I guess today) is my birthday and I already know that he will forget.
He's a great guy but sometimes I wonder if my interest level is higher than his. He does initiate contact and dates but the relationship feels very one sided.
Not sure what to do. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
maybe he's just not a good listener. Or have a really bad memory. Or maybe he have his own shit to worry about and don't have time to think about your shit.
There could be a million things. My advice is to have a discussion with him about it. Tell him that you want him to remember the shit that you tell him and he better remember the important date (b-day/anniversary etc) or we gonna have a problem.
Communication is key in a relationship. Best of luck to you ~0
Most Helpful Girl
if you don't feel your needs are being better then talk to him about it and see if he tries harder to make the effort to remember things or take initiative.0