Over the past year, I have had several different guys find me attractive, both personality-wise and physically. I became interested in two of them, and in each instance, we talked for a while and we had a "thing." But after a couple of weeks to months, they got bored of me and decided they didn't like me anymore/ didn't want to date. I was just curious to see what people's opinions on this was.
*Also, I just want to point out that I am aware of being young, and I'm not preoccupied with this and freaking out over it. I have time to find someone, and I know that. I really am just generally curious. Thanks!
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sure they have their reasons. These things can be complicated. Maybe they thought that you weren't what they thought/wanted or they thought that they wouldn't be good for you or even that you were too much for them. If they don't say, we can never know, we can just wonder things.0
Most Helpful Girl
I am with the guys so far, I would think it is something in your personality. My experience is if a guy finds a girl attractive and they do want a relationship then the things that will scare them a way are as follows:
1) She is dangerous or crazy. This makes her a bad risk men worth happening will not want this in a girlfriend.
2) She is irrationally jealous. She sees cheating or betrayal in every day interactions. No one wants this in a partner. It is annoying.
3) She is a doormat/needy. The person that when asked "what do you want to do?" always answers with "I dunno, whatever you want." Again, no one wants this in a partner. It is annoying.
If you do not think you are any of the things listed above then I have no idea why. Generally speaking, if a guy finds you attractive and he likes your personality then he wants you. My only guess would be maybe these guys did not want to be in a relationship at all.1
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