My boyfriend has a large friends circle in the US and he has been invited there for the wedding of one of his friends. After the ceremony, he is planning to take a road trip to Las Vegas with one of the girls in the group (no one else from the group wishes to go to Vegas and my boyfriend is keen on visiting, so this girl volunteered to take him.)
I have not been invited to the wedding as I don't know his friend too well, moreover I would not get leave from office at that time. However, I do not have a problem with him going to the US, I don't want him to miss out on this holiday as they are all close friends. I do not even have a problem with his Vegas road trip.
However, he is planning to share a room with this other girl while in Vegas to save up on room costs. There will most probably be separate beds and stuff, but I would still find it awkward to share a room with someone from the opposite sex. It's not like I don't trust him (else I wouldn't agree to these trips in the first place), but I just don't feel comfortable with the thoughts of him sharing a room with another girl alone. Is it okay to share a room with someone of the opposite sex if you aren't dating them?
Most Helpful Guy
If you have enough trust in him then it's not going to be a problem. I shared a 1B1B apartment with another girl for a whole year of college trying to save money while dating my current girlfriend. That was our second year together. She came over but it wasn't like every day. Nothing ever happened with me and the girl roommate, we never became friends or anything either afterwards, just friendly acquaintances. Your boyfriend is trying to save money, and around your age money is probably not something that comes by easily. So really, it comes back to trust. Do you trust him, or no?1
Most Helpful Girl
... My boyfriend..
His in Other words a SO, Not just a friend to the End, and No... It is not Okay for my boyfriend to share a room with another girl on holiday...
Sit him down and have a little pet talk with him. It doesn't look Appropriate Being he is Taken, To be Sharing a room, I don't care if there are Separate Quarters Inside this room, It is Not... Prim nor Proper.
Honestly, I just don't "Trust" this whole thing that could very well Lead to a Fling.
Rent out "Knock, Knock" and you will see fast enough how a Loyal dog got Caught up in the folds of Two Scammy girls with plenty of Twirls and Whirls.
Good luck. xx